AMBER N. MERCADER
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
A BIT ABOUT THERAPY
Healing is attainable.
I believe that healing is possible. I believe that everyone deserves consensual loving relationships. I believe that therapy is an excellent tool to help you integrate wellness into your life. I believe that being your therapist is an honor and a privilege as I walk with you on your journey.
I believe that through building a trusting therapeutic relationship, we will be able to explore your core beliefs, extract your inner hopes and dreams, begin to address potential barriers such as self-doubt and fear, and bring deeper awareness to your inner experience. Together we will draw on your strengths to guide us through any areas you feel "stuck" and begin to make shifts. It is my goal to always provide culturally-humble, quality, trauma-informed, collaborative, and client-centered psychotherapy.
My approach is psychodynamic and I integrate interventions of Somatic therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Mindfulness, and Art therapy.
I have advanced training supporting clients that identify with the LGBTQQI2SA community, Addiction & Recovery community, Women of Color, Activist communities, and Spiritual communities. I specialize in supporting those who experience vicarious trauma, oppression in many forms, and sexual trauma; including, childhood sexual abuse, sexual assault, sexual harassment, and sexual exploitation.
A BIT ABOUT ME
"I am my best work- a series of road maps, reports, recipes, doodles, and prayers from the front lines" - Audre Lorde
A Queer Woman of Color Psychotherapist providing Individual, Partnership, and Family Psychotherapy.
Since I was young, I knew I wanted a career path that would make a difference in people’s lives. This grew into my passion for teaching, to which I became a preschool teacher for 7 years. I loved supporting young people and their families through their learning and development and I realized I wanted to support people in a much deeper way! It is from this love of teaching and learning that I began my transition into psychotherapy work.
As someone who is born and raised in the Bay Area, I understand the importance of intersections of my identity on how I view the world and my responsibility to affect positive change. I hold a strong connection to my heritage and my identity as a Mexican and Filipino Queer femme and the healing traditions they offer into my work. Ancestral connections, plant medicine, and healing through re-centering around indigenous medicine has been a profound tool for me during my own healing journey and has sustained my work in community. I believe these intersections allow me to bring my passion for wellness and healing, my commitment to social justice & equity, my love for community, and dedication to teaching to my work as a therapist.
I truly care for all of my clients and work hard to help find them find the answers they seek.
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist #107982
“Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.”
SERVICES I OFFER
Depression & Anxiety
Grief & Loss
Work Life Stress
Gender Expansive Issues
Sex & Relationships
Deepening Spiritual Connection
Communication & Connection
Safety & Trust
Intimacy & Sex
Polyamory & Consent
Queer Couple Support
Relational Skills Building
Blended Family Issues
Separation & Divorce
Identity Transition Support
Building Intentional Connection
Limits & Boundary Support
Adoption & Foster Support
EFT and Queer Couples-Queer Couples Center SF, Brendan hall, 2017
Supporting Families of Color in Community Mental Health Consultation Group with Sandra Schueling, 2017
Supporting Foster Youth of Color in Community Mental Health Consultation Group with Satwinder Mahabir, Hayward, CA 2016
Supporting Queer & Transgender Youth Consultation Group with Tracy Davis, Hayward, CA 2016
Harm Reduction and Recovery within Opiate treatment with Isaac Burns, San Francisco, CA 2013
Somatics and Social Justice Training: Generative Somatics with Staci Haines, Oakland, CA 2011
Sexual Assault Survivors Support Training & Crisis Counseling with San Francisco Women Against Rape 2010 Ongoin
Masters in Counseling Psychology, Community Mental Health at California Institute of Integral Studies, San Francisco, CA 2013
Bachelors of Arts at San Francisco State University Major: Psychology, Minor: Human Sexuality, San Francisco, CA 2011